Just like our main topic today, I believe in our life, there are certain circumstances that'll give us headache in many way. There are several situation that corner us, and made us helpless, hopeless sometimes. Sometime these situations turned really bad, and causes many unpleasant result, mostly pain.
Pain, is a natural gift that we ever have, to alarmed our conscious, our mind about many unpleasant thing, that could turned out to be a danger possibility for ourself. But... I'm not tryin to discuss anythin about physical pain here, but rather talk about emotional pain. Things that make you feel awful, bad, sorrow, sad, mad, you named it...
What I learned so far, and from several occasion from the past, "A pain doesn't always have to be a bad thing. It is, but sometime it can be a dear friend to us, a wise teacher even."
Another question pops then, "But... How?" "How can an unpleasant thing, become friend to us, even a teacher?" Relax, settle down a little bit.
It is true, when we feel sad, everything turned sour for us, at least, we felt so...
But, let's not focus on the bad side... When you're in pain, it is true that you feel awful, and it allright o cry for once in a while, but hey! Let's not focus on that side only, there must be another side of being in pain, the other side, the one that you can take benefit from, that will make you stronger, arise and shine again...
To be emotional is good sometimes, beside, it's part of bein human... to have feelings, and no one to blame you for it, but let's remember one thing, sad is fine, cryin once in a while is acceptable, but don't fall into a self-pity state, don't begin to take pity on yourself.
When you have calmed yourself, and it seems not that hurt anymore, let's recall about the unpleasant experience, think about it, see it from another shoes, don't see it from your point of view only, see it from the third person eyes, find what causes it, judge it from the neutral-state of mind.
And then, you will find that the pain is not that hurting anymore, you will learn a new thing, one thing that you haven't realize before.
Well, the bible does mention that the merry heart is a medicine for soul, meanwhile a broken spirit dries the bones. The same foundamental thing applies here, you will rather more productive when you are happy, that's why, cheer up... What come may, everythin just gonna be allrite... Sometime clouds come and hides the sun, but it doesn't means everything, the sun still there, you just can't see it with your eyes due to the bad weather, but it is, the sun is still there, just wait and see... Everything will be just fine, the sun will still showes after the rain... Take a deep breath, and just sit there nicely, wait for the sun to come again...
Even, while I write these blog post, I feel such blessing for my soul, the problem still here, but I don't see it as big as it is before, I begin to understand, just accept everything without much complain, and still try to turned my days bright... As bright as before... Have a nice day all...
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